Divorce & Matrimonial Law In New York
In New York State, a divorce may be granted on "fault grounds." This means the person seeking the divorce, the plaintiff, asserts that the defendant is blameworthy in the marriage and that a divorce is requested from the State Supreme Court.
The grounds for a divorce include cruel and inhuman treatment, abandonment, and adultery. These are the most common grounds, although there are others. A "conversion" divorce is like a no-fault divorce. When a married couple enters into a separation agreement, after one year, either party can seek a divorce upon grounds which do not require fault to be shown. The allegations in a complaint for a "conversion" divorce are simply that the parties have entered into a separation agreement, the plaintiff has abided by all of its terms and conditions, and the parties have lived separate and apart pursuant to it for one year.
An "uncontested divorce" is one in which the defendant and plaintiff are in agreement with not only the idea of getting divorced but also all the terms of a divorce. That means that instead of a trial, the couple has already agreed upon all the things that a court would have to resolve through a trial.
Whether one is seeking a contested or uncontested divorce or even a separation, there are always important issues that must be resolved. These include:
Consequently, every divorce or separation needs to have these areas properly identified and addressed so that neither spouse nor any of the children suffers from a bad bargain or result.
You should schedule a consultation with an attorney if you are contemplating a divorce, feel your spouse may be seeking to divorce you in the future, or you have been sued for divorce. This is equally important if you are contemplating separation. While you will have to pay a consultation fee, it is money well invested to understand and determine your specific rights and understand what pitfalls may be in store for you in a matrimonial litigation. It is also an indispensable planning tool, even if you are only thinking about a divorce, but not ready to proceed with one.
Divorce should only be considered when attempts to reconcile differences and marital problems fail. These efforts should include marriage counseling. Often, a marriage can not only be saved but significantly improved when one or both spouses see problems and agree on their solution and make a good faith effort to resolve them.
When such efforts fail, and divorce seems inevitable, then a fair agreement regarding the issues that must be addressed is ideal. To this end, a couple may seek mediation. A mediator is a specially trained person, often an attorney, who lets the parties talk through their own agreement. The mediator is neutral and accepts the fact that both parties are there to come to a fair divorce settlement. With his or her assistance, the couple may then enter into an agreement and enter into an uncontested divorce.
Sometimes, one of the spouses does not wish to enter into mediation or finds it unacceptable for any number of reasons to do so, or mediation might simply fail if the parties are too far apart on one or more important issues. This then means that a contested divorce might be inevitable.
An attorney is a person privately retained to represent a party in a divorce action. The issues are joined in papers called a divorce complaint filed by the plaintiff, the person seeking the divorce and an answer, filed by the person being sued for divorce. Sometimes there is a counterclaim for divorce, where the defendant, in turn, wants a divorce against the plaintiff, claiming that it is the plaintiff who is at fault. Significantly, the assets are also closely identified and reviewed and are all reckoned and subject to the outcome of the litigation. More importantly, if there children, the issues of custody, visitation, and child support are also addressed if in dispute. Ultimately, either by a negotiated settlement or after a trial, a judgment of divorce dissolves the marriage if either party is successful. Ninety-nine percent of the time, divorce cases ultimately are settled by and through negotiation.
Choosing an Attorney
In choosing an attorney, you should feel comfortable with that attorney's qualifications and experience in this area of law. While all attorneys practicing law are required to be licensed, and any attorney can represent you (or you can even represent yourself!), you may wish to retain one that has matrimonial law as one of his or her concentrations of practice and has experience in trying cases, if necessary.
Even when you determine that the attorneys you are considering are well qualified, attorneys are different as to approach and personality. You should feel comfortable with your attorney, and feel confident in your attorney's opinions and advice. Ask people you know for referrals, contact your local bar association for the names of several attorneys practicing matrimonial law.
Other marriage related topics are antenuptial agreements (pre-marriage contracts that take effect only in the event that the parties divorce) and opting out agreements (contracts between married couples). These agreements address all the issues that a divorce litigation would, for the purpose of avoiding the litigation. An attorney can discuss details about these with you.
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